If you are married and have difficulties abroad.
If
once you decided to marry a foreigner then it means that you
will change your country to another one, and move there as
soon as you married. At first you get many wonderful things
at once, such as love, home, new impressions, hopes and ideas,
and also you get a new place for living.
But you should realize
that everywhere except the good things there are also some
difficulties can be met. For sure it is not be so easy for
you to get use to another country at once, but moreover it
will
take some time, and for sure you must be ready to face many
differences.
First of all that you must realize while moving to another country
it is the language that you will speak on everywhere and with local
citizens, you have to know the right pronouncation, grammar and
many other details, that are intended to help understand another
country. Moreover very much depend form the language and for sure
be aware that citizens of your new country do also understand you.
You
must realize that while getting a new citizenship you get new customs,
traditions, new cusine and local food habits, you get inability
to meet your relatives and friends, and you will also have to use
to new currency. There can be met many other unknown and unusual
things to you. And for sure you must be ready for all this, moreover
there you will have your beloved who can support you, inspire and
stimulate to studying something about and in the new country.
For
sure this will give more energy and forces for overcoming the difficulties.
There are many different ways that can help you to use to another
country.For example you wan and for sure you need to know more
about not only your new country but also about your new city, or
to be exactly about the city where you are going to live.So for
this you just have to take a bus or a car and just go for a walk,
where you can slowly pass by new and unknown places to you, as
long and as many times you visit one place the more you will get
use to your new location.
If you are married and have difficulties abroad.
At the very start it will be good to
go sightseeing.It will be useful also to get aquainted with local
cafes, shops, bars, parks museums and even find new friends.You
should never be afraid of it, moreover they will be very interested
to know that you are abroad and maybe even suggest help about showing
you the suburbs. It will be good if your husband have many friends
that he can get aquainted with you, so you could start feel more
relaxed and feel a support and friendly atmosphere at a new place.
Try
to spend more time with new friends and relatives, try to go out
together, because this will help you to learn more about the city.
Your weekends try to spend also out of the house and you can even
take an excursion somewhere or just go sightseeing.What will help
you to feel like at home is a homy cosy and comfortable space.
You can put pictures of your family and relatives there, you can
put some souvenirs or just put things around that remind you about
your home. If you do still feel not comfortable them maybe you
should change the decoration and the design of the house or even
one room.You can change the wallpapers, the floor or put new curtains.
For
sure you get a lot of new positive energy and moreover if copy
the design of your previous home, you feel there twice more comfortable
and happy, this will help you greatly to use to a new place.
If you need to stay in touch and feel always a connection with
your family, now we live in a modern world and have wonderful opportunities
for it.For example you can communicate with your friends and family
in networking sites or bloges, through email and just by internet,
you have endless opportunities for it.
Moreover you will always
feel they are near and this will give more strength and power.
Believe in yourself and in your success, only by this way you will
overcome all the difficulties on your way!
